I was speaking with my last client about the pitfalls of some spiritual teachings. In my reality tunnel embodiment is not about having equanimity or calmness. It’s experiencing any expression that arises and letting that experience/expression be, as it is. Which means anger, jealousy, love, joy, fear, and so on all get to be here. When we are tied to an identity, and the identity itself rests upon certain ideas (which all identities do), we can’t let things be, because those things seemingly threaten who we take ourselves to be.